ExplorINg Decolonization
2. Relinquishing control and ownershipStrict control and a sense of ownership are very common in workspaces. This shows up in over-defining projects, roles, and responsibilities, who gets to make decisions, when and how people are engaged, complaints processes, policies, project deliverables, partnerships, consultation, etc. I was recently told by an Elder dont give them all the answers Laura, it takes away their autonomy to define the process and their roles for themselves. At work though, it can be incredibly unsettling to go into projects without clear deliverables and timelines. To balance this, I have been trying to reconceptualize what is mine within work and instead center on who will be using the thing that I am helping create. In doing that, I give up complete control and instead have to trust to process and accept that it will be uncomfortable and not always highly defined. Below is a graphic that shows a ladder of participation. In traditional work, the lower four levels (consultation, informing, education, coercion) are common. An act of decolonization is to consider how the upper levels (co-production, co-design, engagement) can be incorporated into all processes including the creation of policy, procedures, and strategic plans.
3. Centering all conversations in reciprocal relationships and collective decisionsAt the center of decolonial work is acknowledging that systems and structures have been created to reinforce power and create weapons for power holders to use to enforce compliance. Currently with the great resignation employees are reminding employers that relationships and obligations are two-directional. The first step is acknowledging that no matter your identity, you do hold more power in some situations and the second step is noticing how you use power within your relationships. Once that is done, you can start to understand how you can approach work, projects, and staff in a way that encourages collective ownership and decision-making. For leaders, this is a very vulnerable process because it means that we give up control over things that we are accountable for. For others, this can be an uncomfortable process because it means acknowledging the harm we might have caused our colleagues.Here are some tips to undertake centering conversations in reciprocal relationships and collective decisions:- Next time you are in a meeting, start by asking a person how they are and if they have done anything for themselves lately, etc.- In a partnership meeting, dedicate a large chunk of time to simply introducing yourselves.- If you are safe enough, be vulnerable by sharing how you are doing and what your process has been in learning.- When making a decision, plan for time to send the reasoning and thought process to your team and ask for any nuances you might have missed- When creating something, dont over commit to it and invite other teams members to make meaningful and extensive changes if needed- Apologize when needed- Make time for collaboration and capacity buildingUltimately, colonization has affected everyone who lives in a colonized Nation, and therefore it is all of our responsibility to partake in decolonization. Colonization is taught in school, infused in parenting, shows up in work practices, and in all our relationships. People are uncomfortable with the work needed to understand how we have been impacted by colonization and how that has informed the way we relate to people specifically how it shows up in how we use power.Where to start in your decolonizing journey: Identify who has been the stewards of the land that you live, play, and work on and know what treaty you are on. Consider how you view ownership. Shift from owner to steward. Shift from control to collaborative decision-making. Integrate the natural world into your daily practices -> even if that means just taking a meeting outside When confronted with the harm you have caused, instead of reacting or making assumptions, take a moment to think, feel, and root yourself. THEN go back to the conversation with the intention of building the relationship Make time to do self-reflection, to consider power structures you hold, to think and reflect Make more time in projects and with processesThe work of decolonization involves radically rethinking why and how the structures we uphold exist and ultimately challenges us to rethink relationships, hierarchy, and who we think of as valid. Further listening on Decolonizing ourselves: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOYE-gCdSM8&ab_channel=TEDxTalks